Communication The Primary Representation System, when discussed in NLP terms simply means the Representation System that one tends to access in first in communications and uses such most often.
While we all {utilize
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This is {extremely
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So, if you hear someone who is always talking about "how they feel", while another person in the conversation is always making reference to "what they heard on the radio" (or at the water cooler, or on talk radio, etc), it would behoove you to notice the predicates each person in using and feed those same terms (and related predicates) back to them in order to get in rapport.
Next time you are {engaged
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personality}. There are a{wide
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